If he came back, given his lifespan there's a 99% chance he'll show up at some point after you died- which invalidates any sort of wedding and engagement vows in most law books and religions- including the religion he made.
[JUST POINTING THAT OUT THERE. DON'T QUESTION HIM ON SCRIPTURE]
I'm not saying you have to move on from him right now, take your time. Just don't take three thousand years of time because that's what he did. That's not only impossible, but it's really not healthy.
And you know what? He may love you, and had some good intentions- but after all he did? You don't owe him anything. If he shows up and you wanna get back together with him? Then that's your choice because you love him and wanna be with him. But don't feel like you have to because that's what he would've done.
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[JUST POINTING THAT OUT THERE. DON'T QUESTION HIM ON SCRIPTURE]
I'm not saying you have to move on from him right now, take your time. Just don't take three thousand years of time because that's what he did. That's not only impossible, but it's really not healthy.
And you know what? He may love you, and had some good intentions- but after all he did? You don't owe him anything. If he shows up and you wanna get back together with him? Then that's your choice because you love him and wanna be with him. But don't feel like you have to because that's what he would've done.