You're telling me not to get involved and that it's not my place and I shouldn't even be around him. But who else has a plan to deal with it? Who else is coming up with an idea that can actually be carried out? If I'm getting involved... I'd be happy to let someone else take everything over! But he's been captured since summer and I didn't get involved and he's still in jail. [If no one else is making things work and she has an idea... she'll step forward with it. :(]