Regardless of how I feel, I can keep trying.

I don't mean that we have to share everything, but the holidays are important to me--they were important to my family when I was growing up and they're important to me now. And you're equating these books and lectures and interests of yours with being as major in your life as a religion. If they're that big of a deal, then I just didn't realize that, and I can try... even harder.

And clearly you don't know all that much about what I will or won't like. I love wine.