[ouch, that's just more awkward on top of an awkward situation. Poor Allen :(]

I don't know if there is ever a right person to say something like that. [hm, she's quiet for another moment as she thinks]

If you said it, it would probably make your relationship different, and it would be hard to rebuild your friendship so that it's the same as it was before.

But in the end, if you think that it would really hurt them or help them to know, then I think you should do what you feel is best. [you're a good guy, Allen. She trusts your judgement]