...fine. Do you ever do anything just for the heck of it? Do you ever just say, huh, I think I want to go... get some cotton candy for no good reason? Anything like that? That's what I mean by "loosen up" and "have fun." Just do what you want when you want to do it, sometimes, and let life take you wherever it's going to take you without worrying so much about it.

...you seem like you spend a lot of time worrying about what to do with that sand of yours.